Can't handle the struggles of life?
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Made by: H. Tayrone
Is the struggles we go through on a daily basis normal?
What I mean by “normal” is do most people deal with similar pressures? Like are we actually going through much or that’s just how things are?
That question is important because you currently might be in what you would call some tough times, but those times may actually be completely normal and everyone is dealing with the same things. So it would be weird to complain when apparently no one else does.
Can’t you handle the struggles of life?
As harsh as this question sounds I think it is one everyone should ask themselves. We’re all people, we all don’t have it necessarily easy, but one shouldn’t complain about what’s natural for all to have to deal with. I believe this statement to be easily agreeable with.
And even if you’re going through a lot, complaining to yourself or to others won’t bring anything. That’s something I noticed and had to change. I used to complain to myself constantly. Didn’t say anything to anyone but my brain was just filled with nagging, which wasn’t just annoying but actively made my days worse as well, not bringing me anywhere in the process.
You can’t pick a hard route and then keep complaining about how everyone has it easier than you. If you want the best rewards you’ll choose the harder routes but keep always in mind it was your choice, and to deal with every problem you find on your way is your responsibility, like c’mon you knew what you were getting into.
I’m saying all of this because it genuinely feels like you build a fortress of a mind if you stop complaining. Things are going bad? You stay strong and can think straight. You also turn into a generally more pleasant person to be around : )
It has absolutely no down sides.
Nobody said it was going to be easy this whole life thing, but we don’t have to make it harder than it needs to be. To face problems with a straight face just makes everything better.
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